Sunday, March 7, 2010

Shannon

Here is a friend who I remember from my early childhood. My cousin Shannon was admired then and is admired now. It's funny how when you are very young four years makes such a difference, but as time passes the gap closes quickly. As a girl of nine or ten it was a big deal to hang out with my cousins who were older than I was. I remember fun filled evenings with a large group of cousins playing kick the can while our parents sang. Visiting with family in Virginia was a highlight of my childhood and fun was always anticipated until one day when we thought we might lose Shannon. He was in a terrible accident and it is only by the grace of God that he recovered and is still with us today. (As I think about that statement it really is true for all of us spiritually, it's just more physically evident in some cases.) It was so traumatic. As he lay in a coma and as he gradually came out of it I believe I prayed like I never had before. As the months passed we were all so thankful that he was coming around, and at the same time I remember being troubled because he just didn't seem "himself" to me. As years passed everything seemed different, but growing up does change things. I soon had the opportunity and privilege to actually get to know him. During my later teenage years we were able to relate to each other as friends like we never really had as children. I remember a few times in particular: hanging out at the bowling alley, getting a bite to eat at the truck stop in Ephrata, going to see Ground Hog Day in the movie theater; just spending time together. I am so glad for those memories. Of course now we are both adults. Praise the Lord, Shannon has recovered from his injuries. It's such a blessing to see him as a husband and a father. I'm so thankful for his faith. I am always amazed by all of the people he knows. I don't think my cousin Shannon has ever met a stranger. At family gatherings I think he makes a point of talking to almost every person there. I admire his outgoing personality, and genuine interest in people. Unfortunately I am not as close to any of my treasured cousins as I once was, but it is nice when I have a chance to reconnect with them. Shannon, I thank God for the life He has given you. You are a blessing!

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